I'ts a beautiful day, the sun is up, you can hear the birds chirp, you can smell the fresh dew. Everything around you is bright, the color of the room is soothing and calm to your liking. Your covered up in your bed sheet, warm and cozy. And just when you can get on your feet, for that one minute or second that u see and hear the beautiful things around you, you come to realize "your reality".
Life isn't meant to be perfect, it's meant to be beautiful. There are times when one can say, "I am very angry, because he made me unhappy by doing something." Sometimes we fail to understand or 'keep calm' when a situation comes across us.
Sometimes when we are unhappy with a situation that is not to our liking or doesn't acknowledge us, we tend to show rudeness, anger, we also become upset with the situation. Hence, we bring this out in our behavior. An easy example is, Jack's boss gives him a deadline in a project to be done. Jack is unable to finish the job, hence, his boss is unhappy leading him to get angry and firing Jack off the job. One would say this is a normal thing, it is meant to happen, the boss is right in his job etc. I wouldn't disagree either, given the situation. But what if Jack had to come back home after the given situation, and get angry at his wife for not washing his clothes. Guess, we would say it is wrong. The situation is the close to same, but the difference is we look at it in a different way. We fail to recognize the fact that Jack is unhappy of losing his job, hence the obvious reaction to this is anger or upset.
It may not be 24 hours that we are always angry. But what we must realize is that anger does not just come out of nothing at all. Every emotion or behavior that we show, is due to a reaction that has been caused. It's how we see it in another person! How we react to the other persons behavior. We should try and understand another just like we would want another to understand us!
Life isn't meant to be perfect, it's meant to be beautiful. There are times when one can say, "I am very angry, because he made me unhappy by doing something." Sometimes we fail to understand or 'keep calm' when a situation comes across us.
Sometimes when we are unhappy with a situation that is not to our liking or doesn't acknowledge us, we tend to show rudeness, anger, we also become upset with the situation. Hence, we bring this out in our behavior. An easy example is, Jack's boss gives him a deadline in a project to be done. Jack is unable to finish the job, hence, his boss is unhappy leading him to get angry and firing Jack off the job. One would say this is a normal thing, it is meant to happen, the boss is right in his job etc. I wouldn't disagree either, given the situation. But what if Jack had to come back home after the given situation, and get angry at his wife for not washing his clothes. Guess, we would say it is wrong. The situation is the close to same, but the difference is we look at it in a different way. We fail to recognize the fact that Jack is unhappy of losing his job, hence the obvious reaction to this is anger or upset.
It may not be 24 hours that we are always angry. But what we must realize is that anger does not just come out of nothing at all. Every emotion or behavior that we show, is due to a reaction that has been caused. It's how we see it in another person! How we react to the other persons behavior. We should try and understand another just like we would want another to understand us!
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